Question by a girl: Do men in happy and loving relationships “look”?
at other women? And if so, what goes on in your head when doing so? What were to happen if a totally hot woman came on to you?
Best answer:
Answer by queup2003
Men are human, sure we look and lust. The main thing is that he always keep respect for you.
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of course they do, I’m in a happy marriage and I’m sure my husband does look at other women. However I think it’s disrespectful and he will not do it in front of me but I’m sure he’ll do it behind my back. Not to mention I also take a quick peek to other men but not in front of my hubby
Yes honestly i swear its like pure instinct but normally its just looks if they are in a happy relationship, you know once or twice you have looked at a guy and thought oh he is hot or something. now about the second one it really depends on the guy honestly if some guys thought they could get away with it they would go for it. others would either tell her to back off or quickly say i am taken something like woah woah woah i got a girlfriend
Hate to admit this, but yes I do all the time. I think in my case it’s just a reflex reaction when you see something you are attracted to or that you want. It doesn’t even have to be another person, it can just be something I want like a fancy car, a cool HDTV, etc.
Men and women are attracted to other people who aren’t their partner, whether they want to admit it or not. I used to tell my ex, who accused me of rubbernecking all the time when a good-looking woman would walk by, that “am I the only guy in the world YOU are attracted to”? Just because I may look doesn’t mean I’m going to react on it, it’s called self-control. If I was happy with my current situation and a hot woman came onto me, I would probably just tell them I am taken but am flattered in their interest and if things were different I would have taken them up on their offer.
Of course he does. I completely expect him to. He tries not to in front of me even tho i don’t care. he just feels bad about it. And as far as a hot woman coming onto him. Well its happened. He walked away.
I used to look, much more when I was single. The question I used to ask myself was, even though she is really attractive, why was I not attracted to her? One of life’s nicer mysteries
When a ‘hot’ one makes an advance, I used to tell her I was flattered, but she wasn’t my type. I consider it a compliment, and if a friendship forms from that, it’s one based on respect.
Yes, of course they look. My parents have been married 28 years. I recently went on vacation with my dad and I saw him checking some attractive women out. He was respectful about it, but it was obvious. I’m sure my husband “appreciates” the beauty of other women, too. I know I might check out a good looking dude for a second when I’m on my own.
Yes we look. When I look I say in my head “Wow! She is Hot!”. That is where it ends. I am happy with my Wife. Now as for what would happen if said Hot woman came on to me. Well nothing. Again I am happy. Just cause I look does not make me a cheating Dog!
All men look…it’s part of their inner workings I think…LOL The ones in a happy and loving relationship look as well, they just know not to touch or to cause a scene in the presents of their partner. In fact both men and women “look” and I think we all see different things when we look…we’re not all looking and thinking of “sex” or something like that. Unless something out of the way is said from them looking…it’s best not to go there with the conversation. It only brings heartaches.
Yes of course we do. As will you at some point in your life, probably during middle age and pre menopause when your hormones will get the better of you.
What goes on in our head is simple raw stimulation. There’s no romance or other complicated thoughts, just wow that’s hot and we feel aroused. I point out to people who bring this up that stupid as it sounds guys can even get a little aroused by a cartoon. like Jasmine or Esmeralda from the Disney films. So it’s not the actual girl as a person that we’re attracted to, It’s just a certain curve or movement. It’s art. It touches some primitive part of our brains and triggers some hormone or something.
Regarding your second question, I’ve been married 27 years and when that’s happened to me I feel flattered but always say no and back off. Just looking is nice, anything more is trouble I don’t want.
So, it’s kind of like supper coffee. A visual stimulant.
I look all the time, and so does my girlfriend (at guys and girls). Sometimes she points out hot girls for me to look at and we look together.
If a hot girl came onto me I would say, “thank you but I have a girlfriend, so unless she can play too, I’m not interested”
Yes they look, my thinking it’s I can always look too. That is in their nature, so as long as he comes home with me I am alright. Some times I even tell him, “hey look at that girl, she has a big butt”. Then he’ll look and make a comment. I am very confident about my self, so if he ever decides to live me for any one, it will be his lost. I know that he wasn’t worthy of me and move on.
It’s normal to look as long as you don’t touch and as for men if a hot babe came onto a guy 99% would go for it he she doesn’t have be be hot for a guy to take her up on her offer.
sure, sometimes i help him scope out the good ones.
the same thing that would happen if a totally hot guy would walk by you…….look but don’t touch. my wife points out hot chicks for me if i miss them and i do the same for her
hunny . . . men not only look but the also touch . . . even ones in so called happy and loving relationships . . . they are men . . . they love women . . . what more can I say . . .
The short answer is “yes”. When a guy gets married he doesn’t necessarily go blind. Newsflash, woman look also, there just more discreet than us dumb-ass men.
And to answer your 2nd question, very few men can resist a really hot women. Acting on it, is a whole different story.
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Yes, men look…. but so do women (probably more often then men do)and we are quite a bit more critical then our men.
What were to happen if a totally hot woman came on to your committed man??? If he is really a happy man in a loving relationship, he will be completely flattered (and maybe even brag to his guy friends about how awesome he is), but he will always come home to you.
Love is an action (not a feeling). If he loves you and If you love him…. it is a conscious choice, a decision that both of you must CHOOSE to make.
My husband doesn’t. He was taught by his father that looking at another woman and lusting after them is the same as committing adultery in your heart.
I don’t have a problem for married or men in relationship looking except when it’s a long star or a dirty look as if they want the girls to be naked. now, if they were to check out other woman with you around, it’s considered disrespectful for you and esp on him. he is making a fool of himself. they just have to know if a hot woman come on to them, they just have to resist the temptation and be thankful they go a fine woman already.
Of course, and so do women! We’re married, not dead!